I'm bored as hell so why not have another open discussion about the thrill of the hunt, or the innocent compliment that is the art of flirtation.
Strategies? Good stories? Bad stories? Flirting vs. Sexual harrassment? Flirting with someone untill you realize they are fugly and just plain icky up close or in the daylight, lol?
Fun, fun, fun!
first you need to weed out those who will waste your time in the long run. For that I suggest a simple line like this (I once shared this with DJ)
guy: you like anal sex on the first date?
girl: ahh... no
guy: we dont have to call it a date then!
also remember your DNA.
All you got to do is use your instincts. How do you think a lion knows to tackle a gazelle? It's written, it's a code written in his DNA, says, "tackle the gazelle." And believe it or not, in every man there's a code written that says, "tackle drunk bitches."
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40 year old virgin is classic.
My job is all about flirting. Making eye contact. Winking, licking lips, shy waiving, blowing kisses, "good morning miss, have a great day" etc. Its all good. Sometimes its not always about getting the number or trying to hit it. Sometimes that little gesture will go a long way.
I know women, especially beautiful ones tend to get hit on and stared at non-stop. Some chics are arrogant with it. I like to ignore them altogether. To me, I feel chics already sized you up to begin with. I'm not going out of my way to try to get their attention or say the right thing to get them to like me. I say fuck it.
In my experience, you just gotta ignore those cocky wanna be divas. They will automatically think you are gay. Fuck them. If at all possible shit on them. Walk up to them, watch them get all uptight. Say excuse me on the way to the bar. Then walk past them again with drink in hand. Watch how they put that "he didn't notice me?" look. Fuck them, lol. If you like me you'll let me know. In the meantime my fly ass is getting my party, lounge, chill, drink on or whatever the case may be.
I just wait for girls to approach me and ask for my number. It works every time!
Posted by Bonn1997:
I just wait for girls to approach me and ask for my number. It works every time!
To me that works. Like I stated above, women give you the cue when to approach. If you just go into a social setting with the idea that you are gonna enjoy yourself regardless? Everything is just gravy.
I was out with a bunch of friends for a b-day and I just told myself I'm gonna have a great time. And I freakin did. We went to eat, I drank, joked around. Engage everyone in convo, mix it up change seats, joke around and drink on a moderate pace so I can maintain a buzz without getting fishmike drunk, lol.
We winded up meeting some bad ass dominican chics who were also out celebrating a b-day. They were playing their roles so fuck em.....plenty of women hanging out in the resterant. Then 2 of my boys decided to trick on these girls and buy all 10 of them drinks! Wtf! Yeah so but the time we left 7 girls just bounce all smashed while 3 of them were seen getting groped at the bar high of my friends money, lol.
Anyway, we wind up at a small club in the 70's on the east side in manhatten. A hood spot, but again I was having a great time. I chugged a heinagan right away and got my dance on. Me and one of my boys were doin it up with all types of chics in there. You play the game. Girls will dance by themselves and come towards you and you just engage them and they just go with the flow. Next thing you know you are dry humping like a maniac!, lol. I'm getting my butt pinched. Chics sliding me numbers and giving me the "come and talk to me look". That's a great feeling......
Meanwhile, all the rest of my peeps are too busy watching other hoodlums watching them. Too man chics in the world to be bothered with that nonsense. Hey needless to say no fights broke out, and I didn't call any of those girls that gave me their numbers, lol. Why? Cuz its all in the flirt. Sometimes you run into the same people when you go out. Make it happen then or right now. Its all about controling yourself and having fun.
Eny starts a thread so he can tell his story!
We in the presence of the great one:
[Edited by - nalod on 04-05-2008 12:13 AM]
Posted by Nalod:
Eny starts a thread so he can tell his story!
We in the presence of the great one:
[Edited by - nalod on 04-05-2008 12:13 AM]
LOL.
Eny, you're cool man.
One time I had an orgy with like 7 other chicks but I can't continue the story because you know where it goes. After I finished on all their faces, I went home and watched a Knick game with Charles Oakley and Bernard King and we chanted fire Isiah from my penthouse. It was a great night.
Yeah gkf,
but lets tell the truth, you took a nap and then watched the game!
Now thats good, but you know once I did the same, but watched the knicks beat the Bobcats by twenty when Mcadoo went for thiry, Sparrow dropped 10 dimes and Komives hit 4-4 from the 3pt line! yeah, it was a good nite! Then Clyde, Jerome and Josh Howard dropped by and we bonged out for a few hours!
Then Charles Schwab and Spree came over and Schwabby balanced his checkbook!!! Then we all did the chicks again and took long naps!
[Edited by - nalod on 04-05-2008 01:07 AM]
Thanks for participating in the thread, you weasles.
Push and pull... it works every time. Just be careful, a chick may come home with you and pee in your bed.
What I mean by push and pull is adapt your flirting nature to . Go from real sweet, charming to playful, teasing.
"Hey, how are you? I'm Supreme Commander"
"Hi Supreme, I'm xxxx and she's xxxx"
"Y'all are fighting?"
"What?"
"I noticed that you were yelling at her before"
"Oh, no, we weren't fighting... she spilled her drink on me"
"Were you being mean or do you drop things a lot?"
"What kind of question is that?"
"A question from someone who doesn't want to get rum and coke on them"
"hahaha, no, we're actually best friends."
"Yeah, I was just kidding before, but you two have a certain je ne se que"
"Really?"
"Yes, you both seem really sweet... but you still might be mean"
etc.
Posted by GKFv2:
WTF is je ne se que?
It means "I don't know what" in French.
I doubt many girls would know what that means.
Posted by GKFv2:
I doubt many girls would know what that means.
You sure about that? Millions of people take french. Also, people better understand a little french, considering that Paris is one of the most desired vacation spots in the world.
Posted by Allanfan20:
Posted by GKFv2:
I doubt many girls would know what that means.
You sure about that? Millions of people take french. Also, people better understand a little french, considering that Paris is one of the most desired vacation spots in the world.
I'm (obviously) inclined to agree with you here, but even if we're wrong... I think it's safe to say most chicks would see it as a positive that someone said something in French--the romance language--to them.
Anyway, I was trying to show what I meant by push-pull... that was the main point. If the girls didn't know what that phrase meant, that would be an opportunity to tease them or show off a softer side (whichever is more advantageous in that situation).
What is this flirting game and how do you play it?
Posted by SupremeCommander:
Posted by Allanfan20:
Posted by GKFv2:
I doubt many girls would know what that means.
You sure about that? Millions of people take french. Also, people better understand a little french, considering that Paris is one of the most desired vacation spots in the world.
I'm (obviously) inclined to agree with you here, but even if we're wrong... I think it's safe to say most chicks would see it as a positive that someone said something in French--the romance language--to them.
Anyway, I was trying to show what I meant by push-pull... that was the main point. If the girls didn't know what that phrase meant, that would be an opportunity to tease them or show off a softer side (whichever is more advantageous in that situation).
You know GKF already he only comments on the most irrelevent sentence in the post, thus taking the focus of the point.
I totally agree with the push and pull theory. Women respond well to that tactic cuz they feel they are in control when they are actually playing the game you laid out for them.
Like the scenerio where I walk up to a female that I think is attractive and just say "excuse me" on the way to the bar. Then walk right past her again. Totally ignoring her. Chill in her eyesight and see if she is checking you out. She might very well be. Cuz like I said she thinks she is all that and she probably is, and she is totally bent out of shape that you didn't even acknowledge her.......then you make your move with the push and pull.
If the girl has a partner, its good to engage the partner you are uninterested in first and include the one you are interested in. You could straight up diss her subtly. The idea is to get the girl bent out of shape, then you try to build her back up.......its crazy but I seen it happen with one of my maniac friends. Women think they are the shit especially when they are in club mode and all dolled up. You gotta take the control out of their hands and make them playb your game.....cuz yeah, she is the bad chic and you are just one of the dudes geekin out over her......you gotta flip the script and control the situation.
Its easier said then done but I'm still an aprentice....I'm learning though. It takes some balls but yo, it works.
Eny,
Sounds more like tips to help when buying a new car than trying to meet women.
Your assuming you don't like the women and they by taking away what they can have makes you more attractive?
Is this a ritual for casual sex or trying to connect with another human being?
I don't know, I've been married since I am 25. I know not of this "push-pull" flurtation game.
Posted by Nalod:
Eny,
Sounds more like tips to help when buying a new car than trying to meet women.
Your assuming you don't like the women and they by taking away what they can have makes you more attractive?
Is this a ritual for casual sex or trying to connect with another human being?
I don't know, I've been married since I am 25. I know not of this "push-pull" flurtation game.
You gotta love some good old fashioned ritualistic casual sex
