Off Topic · OT: Women on Dating Sites and Women in Bars - Ridiculous (page 1)

This is what I sent to them since I am pissed off at not getting any replies back...

"You know that I don't get....women...they are like "oh yeah, I want a man who is honest, kind, generous, fun, etc" and yet they always choose the douche bag idiots who have spiky hair and collared shirts. :) Why do you feel that is?

I mean women ask, "where have all the good men gone"? First off, for myself... (then I go into how I like to be creative, don't drink, don't do drugs, etc)

Yet whenever I contact a woman as gorgeous as you, it's usually read and deleted. I don't understand as to what goes through a womans head when they see how generous and kind I am (and HONEST). I guess most are insecure and want to be with a hot guy with a hot ride who will cheat on them at some point.

I don't feel like you're that type of woman, are you? Why aren't good guys ever given a chance?

A unique individual who loves to creative and be passionate about his art and making a change for the better and yet women would rather go for the everyday guy...Doesn't make sense to me!"

Who knows.

Haha, I know what you mean. Women are just a weird breed. They can never be understood.

Try it for yourselves www.plentyoffish.com and you'll see what I'm talking about LOL!

BTW, "ISIAH THOMAS" hows your myspace page coming? LOL!

Ha, the myspace is retired with Isiah's firing. I forgot the email for it so it's basically there forever...or until myspace closes down.
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http://www.myspace.com/gaye...

[Edited by - gkfv2 on 07-13-2008 8:37 PM]

Wow, so much anger. Women are nice. Find a way to meet some who share your interests, hang out, become friends, and let nature take its course.

[Edited by - basketballjones on 07-13-2008 20:38]

Women are insane. TMS will tell you. Nothing surprises me when it comes to women.

The main thing to remember is some great advice a good friend told me once when applying for jobs, and it actually applies to women too. She told me that if they don't want you, then you didn't want them either. The logic behind this is if they're that picky upfront, imagine how difficult they'd be to work with. Same deal with women. If they're that picky upfront over superficial things, imagine once the relationship got going. Any woman who is like that did you a favor.

Or...you don't mention want women want and apply yourself to that.I've realized that if you act like you don't care and just socialize,you'll find yourself a nice girl.Little by little the girl can find out who you are and you can get her attention.You have to make her wanting more and hoping she can change you.Lol idk I just act like a guy and it works.

Posted by anklebraker:

Or...you don't mention want women want and apply yourself to that.I've realized that if you act like you don't care and just socialize,you'll find yourself a nice girl.Little by little the girl can find out who you are and you can get her attention.You have to make her wanting more and hoping she can change you.Lol idk I just act like a guy and it works.

There's truth to this. I meant to mention, a great book is "The Art of Seduction".

I'm had my fill of womens bullshit. I'm currently single and not looking.

Women are definately attracted to douche bags. They want a douche bag punk and then hopefully this guy would change into the nice guy once they get into a relatiionship.

I have a female friend who I dated from when I was 18 till about 20. She dresses like a skank and in turn attracts these low life douche bags who are the life of the party yet losers in real life. Drug dealers, convicts, jiggalo's, etc.....she wonders why she gets fucked and left. Why they never call her again. She's a nice educated female. Yet she continues to allow this shit to happen to her.

Just the other night I'm in this Hookah bar that turns into a dance spot. This bummy lookin guy asked this girl to dance and she didn't even acknowledge her. I was laughing and asked her, "yo man why you gotta do my man like that?"....she gave me the same reaction. I'm like fuck that bitch. Later on I wind up grinding on her more voluptuous and prettier friend and then I catch her giving me the "come and talk to me look". Man fuck her. I ignore her the rest of the night.

Again I'm just numb to women right now. I still go out and bullshit, buit I'm not worried about trying to please these women in night spots. I'm there to drink, bump and grind, while joking with my friends.....if a chic wants to holla @ me then lets do it.....but I'm not gonna chase, woo, or stress any woman. I'm happy by myself with my lube.

My question:

Where are the non-bitchy/superficial women?

Myspace is the same. You gotta have a lot of club pics of yourself with expensive clothes and plenty of pics holding your pay check rolled up in your hand. That's what gets reponses from chics.

Chics want an over confident jerk off to entertain them. That's all it is. They want a good time all the time untill they want a kid or want to get married or both. Just like you can't turn a ho into a house wife, you can't turn a douche bag prick into a family man. Holla if you here me!

Don't worry my dude. All we gotta do is catch up to tms and DJ with our post counts and chics will be lining up to give us a happy ending massage.

^ your lube love you back too Eny.

the hot ones always have some kind of emotional & psychological disorders nowadays, trust me... i'm almost tempted to go for the ugly ones... they won't give u no grief & can cook up a mean steak for u & ur buddies anytime ur hungry.

Ok now for all you guys who look for women at the right time , but in the wrong places here's something for you.

http://www.eharmony.com/

If you will be honest and share who you really are and what you really like and dislike you can get someone who fits you to a T.

Just fill out the registration form and watch all the honey's who fit you respond.

Any then holla back at a Playa and tell me how you made out.

Don't forget, be honest filling out you're descriptions questionaire.

PEACE

Posted by playa2:

Ok now for all you guys who look for women at the right time , but in the wrong places here's something for you.

http://www.eharmony.com/

If you will be honest and share who you really are and what you really like and dislike you can get someone who fits you to a T.

Just fill out the registration form and watch all the honey's who fit you respond.

Any then holla back at a Playa and tell me how you made out.

Don't forget, be honest filling out you're descriptions questionaire.

PEACE

I was a member of match.com for quite some time, and it's pretty much the same thing as eharmony. They ask you all these questions about yourself and they try to pair you up with chicks who answered similarly. It doesn't work 999 out of 1000 times. And when it does, these dating sites celebrate it like a vegas casino does for a big winner, just so that they can get more people to join.

The only real way you can see if a woman matches you is by seeing the chemistry in person, and that has nothing to do with personality quiz matchings. Also, 90% of communication is in the body language. Is she bumping into you "Accidentally" or putting your hand in close to you, or feet for that matter, or leaning into you when she's sitting next to you.

LongIsland, from one LI guy to another: Don't get frustrated by chicks. Enjoy life. Make lots and lots of films. When chicks see you're enjoying life and it's going the way you want it, they'll take a look.

But finding chicks is meant to be hard. If it wasn't, then I have a feeling that this message board would be flooded with a million mini Allanfans, and I'm sure we would all want that.

PS: Here's a little bar trick that will get every chick to respect you. If you talk to a chick in a bar and she acts like or says she's not interested, just give he a simple "Alright, I'm too good for you anyway." If she wants arrogance, then there she has it.

Posted by LongIslandKnicksFan:

This is what I sent to them since I am pissed off at not getting any replies back...

"You know that I don't get....women...they are like "oh yeah, I want a man who is honest, kind, generous, fun, etc" and yet they always choose the douche bag idiots who have spiky hair and collared shirts. :) Why do you feel that is?

I mean women ask, "where have all the good men gone"? First off, for myself... (then I go into how I like to be creative, don't drink, don't do drugs, etc)

Yet whenever I contact a woman as gorgeous as you, it's usually read and deleted. I don't understand as to what goes through a womans head when they see how generous and kind I am (and HONEST). I guess most are insecure and want to be with a hot guy with a hot ride who will cheat on them at some point.

I don't feel like you're that type of woman, are you? Why aren't good guys ever given a chance?

A unique individual who loves to creative and be passionate about his art and making a change for the better and yet women would rather go for the everyday guy...Doesn't make sense to me!"

Who knows.

LI, what are you doing for an occupation these days?

Posted by EnySpree:
I'm happy by myself with my lube.

Shoot that gun!

Posted by Allanfan20:

Posted by playa2:

Ok now for all you guys who look for women at the right time , but in the wrong places here's something for you.

http://www.eharmony.com/

If you will be honest and share who you really are and what you really like and dislike you can get someone who fits you to a T.

Just fill out the registration form and watch all the honey's who fit you respond.

Any then holla back at a Playa and tell me how you made out.

Don't forget, be honest filling out you're descriptions questionaire.

PEACE

I was a member of match.com for quite some time, and it's pretty much the same thing as eharmony. They ask you all these questions about yourself and they try to pair you up with chicks who answered similarly. It doesn't work 999 out of 1000 times. And when it does, these dating sites celebrate it like a vegas casino does for a big winner, just so that they can get more people to join.

I like it when somebody tries to say they are all the same , but has nevre tried themn all becomes the expert. LOL

E-HARMONY is a little bit different than match.com LOL and like I said be honest in your questionnaire and let the system work for you.