This MAY sound kind of immature, and I understand if it does. And I am part of a dating site called plentyoffish.com which has a forum. I asked about this on the forum and kind of got hammered for it, but I'll ask anyway, on here, just to see if the opinion is different, just b/c this isn't a dating site, so people come here for sports.
I've dated this woman several times, and I like her very much. She has issues, that I wanna see if I can work with, but we shall see. One of them seems small, but it just bothers me, even though maybe it shouldn't. I can't seem to get it past me. She has a boyfriend that passed away and right above her left breast, she has his name tattooed. Now, I KNOW he's important and he'll always be a part of her. Trust me. But would something like this bother anybody else, ESPECIALLY is say your hooking up and you see somebody else's name on top of her chest?
Again, maybe immature, but I can't help what naturally bothers me and not sure if it's something I should let go.
Can we get a better description about the shape, firmness, and lift of said breasts?
You looking for marriage material?
How long since this guy is passed?
She read those forums? I mean not too many chicks with tats on breast of lost men?
How did this guy die? HIV? RUN!!!!
If you love her, then it won't bother you. If you are the love of her life she should have it removed.
But you can't really see this tat from behind can you?
Posted by Allanfan20:
This MAY sound kind of immature, and I understand if it does. And I am part of a dating site called plentyoffish.com which has a forum. I asked about this on the forum and kind of got hammered for it, but I'll ask anyway, on here, just to see if the opinion is different, just b/c this isn't a dating site, so people come here for sports.
I've dated this woman several times, and I like her very much. She has issues, that I wanna see if I can work with, but we shall see. One of them seems small, but it just bothers me, even though maybe it shouldn't. I can't seem to get it past me. She has a boyfriend that passed away and right above her left breast, she has his name tattooed. Now, I KNOW he's important and he'll always be a part of her. Trust me. But would something like this bother anybody else, ESPECIALLY is say your hooking up and you see somebody else's name on top of her chest?
Again, maybe immature, but I can't help what naturally bothers me and not sure if it's something I should let go.
I wouldnt worry about that--no one is perfect. More importantly make sure she has good and aggressive fellatio skills--a college degree and her affinity for eating and working out have excellent balance. Take a good look at her mother as well and make sure she has a docile side---you want quiet in your house when you are watching the games:)
unless ur planning on marrying her i don't think u have much reason to sweat over it... it obviously means a lot to her & until she finds someone else who means just as much, it's not really fair to expect her to have it removed (if that was what u were suggesting)... otherwise if it keeps bothering u then there's plenty of fish out there, just like the site suggests.
Naa, I wouldn't suggest she remove it. That's not fair. Like I said, it's a part of her heart and I could never take that away. It's more of a self conflict of whether I should stick around or not, but I'm obviously sticking around now.
Thanks to all 3 of you though. We will see what happens!
As long as she isn't calling out his name during intimate moments I wouldn't worry about it.
I think I just made myself sick.
Man so glad that I am drop dead gorgeous so I dont have to go through shyt like this.
Posted by Nalod:
Can we get a better description about the shape, firmness, and lift of said breasts?
You looking for marriage material?
How long since this guy is passed?
She read those forums? I mean not too many chicks with tats on breast of lost men?
How did this guy die? HIV? RUN!!!!
If you love her, then it won't bother you. If you are the love of her life she should have it removed.
But you can't really see this tat from behind can you?
I am with Nalod here. You need to photograph said breast and post here. I think we can better help you with visuals.
Posted by BRIGGS:
Posted by Allanfan20:
This MAY sound kind of immature, and I understand if it does. And I am part of a dating site called plentyoffish.com which has a forum. I asked about this on the forum and kind of got hammered for it, but I'll ask anyway, on here, just to see if the opinion is different, just b/c this isn't a dating site, so people come here for sports.
I've dated this woman several times, and I like her very much. She has issues, that I wanna see if I can work with, but we shall see. One of them seems small, but it just bothers me, even though maybe it shouldn't. I can't seem to get it past me. She has a boyfriend that passed away and right above her left breast, she has his name tattooed. Now, I KNOW he's important and he'll always be a part of her. Trust me. But would something like this bother anybody else, ESPECIALLY is say your hooking up and you see somebody else's name on top of her chest?
Again, maybe immature, but I can't help what naturally bothers me and not sure if it's something I should let go.
I wouldnt worry about that--no one is perfect. More importantly make sure she has good and aggressive fellatio skills--a college degree and her affinity for eating and working out have excellent balance. Take a good look at her mother as well and make sure she has a docile side---you want quiet in your house when you are watching the games:)
If I ever have problems I'm going to BRIGGS for advise.
Posted by NYKBocker:
Posted by Nalod:
Can we get a better description about the shape, firmness, and lift of said breasts?
You looking for marriage material?
How long since this guy is passed?
She read those forums? I mean not too many chicks with tats on breast of lost men?
How did this guy die? HIV? RUN!!!!
If you love her, then it won't bother you. If you are the love of her life she should have it removed.
But you can't really see this tat from behind can you?
I am with Nalod here. You need to photograph said breast and post here. I think we can better help you with visuals.
Haha, you guys are funny.
My two cents. It seems like you guys are already having problems, and if it goes any deeper, just remember they are other good girls out there without a tattoo of her ex on her left breast. Also, you should be concerned that a girl has a tattoo of her ex on her left breast. Sounds like you two will headbutt on this topic a lot in the future.
Well, the point is mute. This chick is out of the picture now, and it has NOTHING to do with her left breast or any tatoos, nor her ex. It's probably better anyway. This has been a real good discussion though, and hopefully it can keep up!
Posted by Allanfan20:
Well, the point is mute. This chick is out of the picture now, and it has NOTHING to do with her left breast or any tatoos, nor her ex. It's probably better anyway. This has been a real good discussion though, and hopefully it can keep up!
The right breast then?
Yes, her right breast had a tattoo of the guys face.
Posted by Allanfan20:
Well, the point is mute. This chick is out of the picture now, and it has NOTHING to do with her left breast or any tatoos, nor her ex. It's probably better anyway. This has been a real good discussion though, and hopefully it can keep up!
So what'happen?
We were supposed to go out for the first time in awhile on Saturday. Mind you, all we were doing was texting lately, but I already knew the girl so I didn't mind too much. It was a long time since I saw her though, so it would have been good to speak on the phone a little, but it seemed like she just refused to do that. However, in the morning, she said I can't wait to hang out with you (Without me asking) and that night, she said she didn't think it would work (Without me baiting her into saying that).. Fine. She's not the only pepple on the beach.
I just thought it was a very weird situation, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with it anymore. It was similar to when I was dating her awhile ago, so I learned my lesson in life out of it. If you don't learn from history, you're bound to repeat it.
Posted by Allanfan20:
We were supposed to go out for the first time in awhile on Saturday. Mind you, all we were doing was texting lately, but I already knew the girl so I didn't mind too much. It was a long time since I saw her though, so it would have been good to speak on the phone a little, but it seemed like she just refused to do that. However, in the morning, she said I can't wait to hang out with you (Without me asking) and that night, she said she didn't think it would work (Without me baiting her into saying that).. Fine. She's not the only pepple on the beach.
I just thought it was a very weird situation, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with it anymore. It was similar to when I was dating her awhile ago, so I learned my lesson in life out of it. If you don't learn from history, you're bound to repeat it.
Sounds like the ex on her breast came back to life.
Posted by Bippity10:
Posted by Allanfan20:
We were supposed to go out for the first time in awhile on Saturday. Mind you, all we were doing was texting lately, but I already knew the girl so I didn't mind too much. It was a long time since I saw her though, so it would have been good to speak on the phone a little, but it seemed like she just refused to do that. However, in the morning, she said I can't wait to hang out with you (Without me asking) and that night, she said she didn't think it would work (Without me baiting her into saying that).. Fine. She's not the only pepple on the beach.
I just thought it was a very weird situation, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with it anymore. It was similar to when I was dating her awhile ago, so I learned my lesson in life out of it. If you don't learn from history, you're bound to repeat it.
Sounds like the ex on her breast came back to life.
I was thinking that too. Or she met someone else.
