TMS wrote:seb bro, this song has gotten me through some tough times in the past:
What if you still want her back, tho?
i hear u bro, believe me it's tough when everyday you wake up & u feel a huge hole in your soul cuz your woman's no longer around... & with all the other stuff that's going on in your life i can't even begin to imagine how hard it's been for you... but sooner or later u just have to accept the fact that u can't force anyone to feel something if they don't... it's a harsh reality & i think getting over that hurdle is the biggest step towards healing emotionally.
i know it sucks, i went through a painful breakup of my own... we weren't together as long as u & your woman were so i can't really relate on those terms, but the hardest part is always coming to the realization that her feelings are her own & she will come back if she wants it, but there's really nothing u can do to get her back & stay... last thing u want is her to come back out of feelings of guilt or sadness, cuz that will never last... u want her to come back with a clear head & realizing that what she had with you was the best thing that ever happened to her, otherwise it's best for u guys to move on & find someone else that u can say that about in the future... what does not destroy you can only make you stronger bro... stay strong & focus on yourself right now... that's really the only way to get over something like this... feel free to vent if u need an ear, we all got your back seb.
sebstar@ 1/12/2010 7:48 PM
Oh I hear you. I dont want to make it seem like I'm in denial or somethin'...And I have been doing my thing without her and all so I'm keeping the mind and body active.
Its just that the heart and mind won't cooperate. You said it best. 'that huge hole'...
Btw, thanks for sharing your personal. Appreciates.
TMS@ 1/12/2010 7:50 PM
i feel ya fam... might i suggest taking a trip someplace if u can afford to get away & clearing your head a bit... nothing better to get over a tough breakup than some foreign poon, nah'm sayin?
firefly@ 1/13/2010 4:27 AM
sebstar wrote:
firefly wrote:Just wanted to give this thread a quick bump, see how Sebby's doing?
Hope its all working itself out man.
not much has changed with the personal....Just taking it day by day. Thanks for asking, tho. Means a lot...
You'll never walk alone bro....
When you walk through a storm Hold your head up high And don't be afraid of the dark. At the end of the storm There's a golden sky And the sweet silver Song of a lark.
Walk on through the wind Walk on through the rain Though your dreams Be tossed and blown.
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart I And you'll never walk alone
