orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
What the hell is wrong with you?
orangeblobman@ 12/13/2009 8:24 PM
Panos wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
What the hell is wrong with you?
Why the hell are you hating on me? I gave the guy some practical advice and some humor. Only an idiot would think that my post was in bad spirit. Are you insane?? If I was in his shoes I would rather have practical advice and humor than abstract poetry and sad songs.
Panos@ 12/13/2009 8:34 PM
orangeblobman wrote:
Panos wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
What the hell is wrong with you?
Why the hell are you hating on me? I gave the guy some practical advice and some humor. Only an idiot would think that my post was in bad spirit. Are you insane?? If I was in his shoes I would rather have practical advice and humor than abstract poetry and sad songs.
I don't hate you, man. Hate is a strong word. I just shake my head at you. Should probably just hit the ignore button...
bitty41@ 12/13/2009 8:51 PM
sebstar wrote:
TRU wrote:
sebstar wrote:life sucks and I hate it...cant wait to leave it. Real talk. fukk this shyt
Man, suck it up.
Tough love, bro... stop bytchin. That's the first step to getting past this.
Less Marbury, more Mason.
Easy to just spit that out and say that, bro.
Easy to say when its not you watching your father die. Easy to say that when its not your father that is talking suicide and your lil' sisters call crying and screaming because of it on the daily. Easy to say when its not your moms overseas because of this stupid ass war, hating life. Easy to say when its not you that felt like you had a soulmate and then the bytch acts like you never existed in conjunction to everything else going on. I flucked up like any man but I was there for her and I was close to her family and put nothing above that. Now I mean jack shyt. Easy to say when you're not the one feeling trapped by loneliness, guilt, and depression.
Im no bytch fam, but brothas bleed. Im human. I dont give a fukk what you have to say.
I'm really sorry about what your going through. All you can do from this relationship is learn from mistakes and take it as one of life's hard lessons. Take it one day at a time and stay strong for yourself and for your family.
bitty41@ 12/13/2009 8:53 PM
Panos wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:
Panos wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
What the hell is wrong with you?
Why the hell are you hating on me? I gave the guy some practical advice and some humor. Only an idiot would think that my post was in bad spirit. Are you insane?? If I was in his shoes I would rather have practical advice and humor than abstract poetry and sad songs.
I don't hate you, man. Hate is a strong word. I just shake my head at you. Should probably just hit the ignore button...
This is why I stopped dealing with this clown.
orangeblobman@ 12/13/2009 8:55 PM
bitty41 wrote:
Panos wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:
Panos wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
What the hell is wrong with you?
Why the hell are you hating on me? I gave the guy some practical advice and some humor. Only an idiot would think that my post was in bad spirit. Are you insane?? If I was in his shoes I would rather have practical advice and humor than abstract poetry and sad songs.
I don't hate you, man. Hate is a strong word. I just shake my head at you. Should probably just hit the ignore button...
This is why I stopped dealing with this clown.
You turned a post that tried to help a fellow man into a bashing session of me. Now, I'm flattered that you would waste your time to take your self-hate out on an anonymous message board poster, but instead of making yourselves look like idiots, you should just hit that ignore button and stop talking about it, no one cares. Ti si obicna picka.
Believe me, sebstar is a smart guy and he will understand my well meaning sentiment.
BRIGGS@ 12/13/2009 8:59 PM
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
dude--telling some guy who is down to take a lot of drugs is ignoramus at best. Sebstar--keep your head up man--life is ebbs and flows ups and downs. You already know that. Concentrate on the positives and do things that make you happy. Sometimes watching a simple ballgame is a nice remedy --best of luck my man--you will be fine.
orangeblobman@ 12/13/2009 9:01 PM
BRIGGS, I don't know if you've ever used marijuana, but in very bad times it is a very effective treatment. I know Seb enjoys an occasional blunt or so, so from a fellow pot smoker to another it's an understood thing.
I know a thing or two about psychology. In the worst of times the focus is to get through. It's not a regular situation. Whatever gets you through is a good thing, and once you're through you can start to think about resuming normal operations.
SupremeCommander@ 12/14/2009 1:33 AM
orangeblobman wrote:
bitty41 wrote:
Panos wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:
Panos wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
What the hell is wrong with you?
Why the hell are you hating on me? I gave the guy some practical advice and some humor. Only an idiot would think that my post was in bad spirit. Are you insane?? If I was in his shoes I would rather have practical advice and humor than abstract poetry and sad songs.
I don't hate you, man. Hate is a strong word. I just shake my head at you. Should probably just hit the ignore button...
This is why I stopped dealing with this clown.
You turned a post that tried to help a fellow man into a bashing session of me. Now, I'm flattered that you would waste your time to take your self-hate out on an anonymous message board poster, but instead of making yourselves look like idiots, you should just hit that ignore button and stop talking about it, no one cares. Ti si obicna picka.
Believe me, sebstar is a smart guy and he will understand my well meaning sentiment.
No. You turned conversation about uplifting a uk member into a joke and it was dealt with accordingly.
jimimou@ 12/14/2009 11:58 AM
sebstar wrote:
TRU wrote:
sebstar wrote:life sucks and I hate it...cant wait to leave it. Real talk. fukk this shyt
Man, suck it up.
Tough love, bro... stop bytchin. That's the first step to getting past this.
Less Marbury, more Mason.
Easy to just spit that out and say that, bro.
Easy to say when its not you watching your father die. Easy to say that when its not your father that is talking suicide and your lil' sisters call crying and screaming because of it on the daily. Easy to say when its not your moms overseas because of this stupid ass war, hating life. Easy to say when its not you that felt like you had a soulmate and then the bytch acts like you never existed in conjunction to everything else going on. I flucked up like any man but I was there for her and I was close to her family and put nothing above that. Now I mean jack shyt. Easy to say when you're not the one feeling trapped by loneliness, guilt, and depression.
Im no bytch fam, but brothas bleed. Im human. I dont give a fukk what you have to say.
yo seb - sorry to hear. youre in my prayers dude. real tough stuff to deal with. i'm sure i speak for almost everyone here when I say if there's anything you need, just reach out.
kam77@ 12/14/2009 12:41 PM
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
Good post. I don't know why the rest of you are so uptight.
Nalod@ 12/14/2009 1:01 PM
Didn't we just see some pics of sebby and Marv with chicks out in San Diego a few months back?
I just can't see a Man-hurting-ass Sebby wallowing over a chick with the tough patina and unyielding ass manner. If so, then its best to talk it over (sounds like he is doing) but self medicating on weed only supresses the emotions which is never good. At least we know where the "Blobman" comes from!
Somehow I think Sebby is going to be just fine!
orangeblobman@ 12/14/2009 1:20 PM
kam77 wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
Good post. I don't know why the rest of you are so uptight.
Thanks Kam. They're uptight because they have a bias against me from way back ( I forget why), and because they are old.
But you, Seb, and I understand where I'm coming from.
Seb, seriously, best wishes, man.
SupremeCommander@ 12/14/2009 1:50 PM
orangeblobman wrote:
kam77 wrote:
orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.
Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.
Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.
There is a joke in my country:
"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, 'shit, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"
Good post. I don't know why the rest of you are so uptight.
Thanks Kam. They're uptight because they have a bias against me from way back ( I forget why), and because they are old.
But you, Seb, and I understand where I'm coming from.
Seb, seriously, best wishes, man.
Give yourself some credit, bro. It has little to do with any one particular post and much to do with your entire body of work
eViL@ 12/14/2009 1:51 PM
had no idea this is what i'd run into in this thread. damn seb, i'm very sorry to hear what's goin on in your life man. sometimes i think that life deals us challenges only when we're prepared to step up to them. so although it's might not seem this way to you, i think deep within you, you got the strength to overcome this and come out of it a better man. i'm keepin the positive thoughts and vibes flowing for you and your fam during this tough time.
firefly@ 12/14/2009 6:25 PM
Wow Seb, dunno what to say. I been thru some of the stuff your mentioning and sounds like your a bigger man then me the way your dealing with it now. Gotta keep your chin up every day and find that one thing to smile about. I know it cant be easy, but know that we're all here for you and theres not a man-jack on this forum who wouldnt drive through the night if you needed it man.
Great stuff above from Paladin, Kipling got me through some real shint too.
TMS@ 12/15/2009 5:40 PM
seb bro, this song has gotten me through some tough times in the past:
firefly@ 1/12/2010 5:24 AM
Just wanted to give this thread a quick bump, see how Sebby's doing?
Hope its all working itself out man.
sebstar@ 1/12/2010 7:16 PM
firefly wrote:Just wanted to give this thread a quick bump, see how Sebby's doing?
Hope its all working itself out man.
not much has changed with the personal....Just taking it day by day. Thanks for asking, tho. Means a lot...
sebstar@ 1/12/2010 7:17 PM
TMS wrote:seb bro, this song has gotten me through some tough times in the past:
What if you still want her back, tho?
TMS@ 1/12/2010 7:26 PM
sebstar wrote:
TMS wrote:seb bro, this song has gotten me through some tough times in the past:
What if you still want her back, tho?
i hear u bro, believe me it's tough when everyday you wake up & u feel a huge hole in your soul cuz your woman's no longer around... & with all the other stuff that's going on in your life i can't even begin to imagine how hard it's been for you... but sooner or later u just have to accept the fact that u can't force anyone to feel something if they don't... it's a harsh reality & i think getting over that hurdle is the biggest step towards healing emotionally.
i know it sucks, i went through a painful breakup of my own... we weren't together as long as u & your woman were so i can't really relate on those terms, but the hardest part is always coming to the realization that her feelings are her own & she will come back if she wants it, but there's really nothing u can do to get her back & stay... last thing u want is her to come back out of feelings of guilt or sadness, cuz that will never last... u want her to come back with a clear head & realizing that what she had with you was the best thing that ever happened to her, otherwise it's best for u guys to move on & find someone else that u can say that about in the future... what does not destroy you can only make you stronger bro... stay strong & focus on yourself right now... that's really the only way to get over something like this... feel free to vent if u need an ear, we all got your back seb.
