TripleThreat wrote:arkrud wrote:So if marriage is not working there are many replacements.....
Jewish man or woman can f..ck on the side but the marriage is more important that that all sex bull..sht so in most cases family stays together regardless.
Kids are the end of all means and they have to have both parents and family regardless.
So, you are saying, since you are speaking for the entirety of all Jews here ( your point of discussion, not mine), that every married Jewish couple can have side pieces, and that there is no chance at all of that bleeding into resentment/anger/violence/tension/problems/fighting and that all has no effect on the household and the kids in it?
Kids know when something is fucked up with the parents. If Mom is pissed at Dad because his secretary is blowing him every night and Dad is angry at Mom because she's schlepping her personal trainer, that's going to have no impact on the kids at all?
So these two people stand up in a ceremony, in front of family, friends, coworkers, etc, etc and declare their fidelity and then it's just cool to go fuck other people?
So sex is bullshit, but lying is not?
If you get up and make these lacy and frilly promises of fidelity and faithfulness at a nice expensive wedding, then they later go and fuck other people, that's not just totally fucking dishonest to the bone?
Call me nuts, but if I slave away and bleed and sweat to pay the mortgage and put food on the table, I'd like to think I'd speak for a lot of guys here in saying that last thing I'd be putting up with is my wife with some other dudes cock in her mouth. I'm supposed to say everyone has a different path and it's not my life so I can't judge, but you know what? Fuck that noise.
Any dude who is married and is cool with his wife choking down on some other dude's meat pipe is a cuck in my book. A straight up fucking cuck.
So a piece of paper that forms a legal relationship so the government, Big Daddy Federal Fuck With You, can run your life and bleed you dry, is worth more than not being a cuck nor a liar?
I understand your confusion. But it is really different.
For religious Jews the marriage papers is the way to deal with government of country were they happens to be at a time.
It has nothing to do with family and relationships between man and woman.
They just need to follow the laws of country they are leaving in to not be prosecuted.
For non-religions Jews the traditions are still important and ingrained but so the official marriage is more important as no religions law exist to govern the family economics and other aspects of family life. But the general accepted cultural norms are that family and children are way more important that sex. Infidelity is as widespread as with any other people but it is not taken even close as serious.
Man can be drinking, gambling, stealing cash from family and all this are much bigger issue that f..cktng some chick on the side.
Our freedom is an accepted necessity of following the law of the nation, society, and nature.
Only by accepting inevitable, including the inevitable death, man can be free and happy regardless of any external distractions.
It is not easy to obtain the knowledge, takes thousands of years and hundreds of generations.
Some vise man just join the enlightened for smaller cost. But majority is moving along in misery to gain their own experience.
Also of course there are many Jews who are not following along with majority. But any exceptions are just the prove to the rule.